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New York Magazine’s Sex Lives: Can You Ask Your Gynecologist on a Date?

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Have the rules of meet-cute engagement changed? Vogue sex columnist Karley Sciortino argues that, whereas internet dating was once considered sleazy, in the age of Tinder, hitting on a stranger at a bar is infinitely creepier. (If only there was a way to swipe left IRL.) She also rants against the insufferable elitism (and stealth racism) of Raya; what to drink before peeing in a submissive man’s mouth; what to do when a man incorrectly accuses you of catfishing; and why Karley is considering asking her gynecologist on a date. With host Maureen O’Connor — who, for the record, will never stop hitting on cute boys at bars.

Can You Ask Your Gynecologist on a Date?