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New York Magazine’s Sex Lives Podcast: Are You a Grower or Shower in Love?

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When it comes to penis size, some men will show their full potential from the start, while others have the ability to grow to unexpected heights. This week’s Sex Lives podcast asks, could the same be true for falling in love? Writer Jason Chen and Vocativ deputy editor Erin Gloria Ryan discuss people who get hotter with age, the wisdom (and agony) of romantic holding patterns, and how “benching” became the new “ghosting.” With Maureen O’Connor and David Wallace-Wells.

Are You a Grower or Shower in Love?