
In the morning, the one who is mostly enlightened comes in. There are stages and she is in the second to last, she thinks. This stage can be described only by a Japanese word. Bucket of black paint, it means.
I spend some time pulling books for the doomed adjunct. He has been working on his dissertation for eleven years. I give him reams of copy paper. Binder clips and pens. He is writing about a philosopher I have never heard of. He is minor, but instrumental, he told me. Minor but instrumental!
But last night, his wife put a piece of paper on the fridge. Is what youโre doing right now making money? it said.
The man in the shabby suit does not want his fines lowered. He is pleased to contribute to our institution. The blond girl whose nails are bitten to the quick stops by after lunch and leaves with a purse full of toilet paper.
I brave a theory about vaccinations and another about late capitalism. โDo you ever wish you were thirty again?โ asks the lonely heart engineer. No, never, I say. I tell him that old joke about going backward.
We donโt serve time travelers here.
A time traveler walks into the bar.
On the way home, I pass the lady who sells whirling things. Sometimes when the students are really stoned, theyโll buy them. No takers today, she says. I pick out one for Eli. Itโs blue and white, but blurs to blue in the wind. Donโt forget quarters, I remember.
At the bodega, Mohan gives me a roll of them. I admire his new cat, but he tells me it just wandered in. He will keep it though because his wife no longer loves him.
โI wish you were a real shrink,โ my husband says. โThen weโd be rich.โ
Henryโs late. And this after I took the car service so I wouldnโt be. When I finally spot him, heโs drenched. No coat, no umbrella. He stops at the corner, gives change to the woman in the trash bag poncho.
My brother told me once that he missed drugs because they made the world stop calling to him. Fair enough, I said. We were at the supermarket. All around us things tried to announce their true nature. But their radiance was faint and fainter still beneath the terrible music.
I try to get him warmed up quickly, soup, coffee. He looks good, I think. Clear-eyed. The waitress makes a new pot, flirts with him. People used to stop my mother on the street. What a waste, theyโd say. Eyelashes like that on a boy!
So now we have extra bread. I eat three pieces while my brother tells me a story about his NA meeting.ย A woman stood up and started ranting about anti-depressants. What upset her most was that people were not disposing of them properly. They tested worms in the city sewers and found they contained high concentrations of Paxil and Prozac.
When birds ate these worms, they stayed closer to home, made more elaborate nests, but appeared unmotivated to mate. โBut were they happier?โ I ask him. โDid they get more done in a given day?โ
The window in our bedroom is open. You can see the moon if you lean out and crane your neck. The Greeks thought it was the only heavenly object similar to earth. Plants and animals fifteen times stronger than our own inhabited it.
My son comes in to show me something.ย It looks like a pack of gum, but itโs really a trick. When you try to take a piece, a metal spring snaps down on your finger. โIt hurts more than you think,โ he warns me.
Ow.
I tell him to look out the window. โThatโs a waxing crescent,โ Eli says. He knows as much now about the moon as he ever will, I suspect. At his old school, they taught him a song to remember all its phases. Sometimes heโll sing it for us at dinner, but only if we do not request it.
The moon will be fine, I think.ย No oneโs worrying about the moon.
The woman with the bullhorn is at the school door this morning. Sheโs warning the parents not to go in, to leave the children there behind the red line. โSafety first!โ she yells. โSafety first!โ
But sometimes Eli cries if heโs left in that loud scrum of people. He doesnโt like having to walk alone from one side of that huge cafeteria to the other. Once he froze in the middle until some aide grabbed him by the elbow and pushed him toward his corner.
So today we make a run for it and dart past her to his assigned assembly point. His friend is at the table and has animal crackers so I make it out of there without tears, but not before the bullhorn woman screams at me. โNo parents! No parents may accompany their children!โ
God, she loves that bullhorn. Something shoots through my body at the sound of her voice, then Iโm out on the street again, telling myself not to think.
All day long cranky professors. I swear the ones with tenure are the crankiest. They will cut past other people in line to check out a book or set up their hold list. Studies have shown that 94% of college professors think that they do above average work.
They gave us a guide the other day. Tips for Dealing with Problem Patrons. The professors werenโt mentioned. There were the following categories.
Malodorous
Humming
Laughing
Defacing
Laundering
Combative
Chattering
Lonely
Coughing
But how to categorize this elderly gentleman who keeps asking me to give him the password for his own email? I try to explain that it is not possible for me to know this, that only he knows this, but he just shakes his head in that indignant way that means, what kind of help desk is this?
Thereโs a poster of Sylvia at the bus stop. It says sheโs coming to give a talk on campus. Years ago, I was her grad student, but then I gave up on it. She used to check in on me now and then to see if I was still squandering my promise. The answer was always yes. Finally, she pulled some strings to get me this job even though I donโt have a proper degree for it.
On the way home, I listen to her new podcast. This episode is called The Center Cannot Hold. They could all be called that. But Sylviaโs voice is almost worth the uptick in dread. Itโs soothing to me even though she talks only of the invisible horsemen galloping toward us.
There are recognizable patterns of ascent and decline. But our industrial civilization is so vast, it has such reachโฆ
I look out the window. Something in the distance, limping toward the trees.
The door opens and Eli hurls himself at me. I help him peel some rubber cement off his hands then he goes back to his game. This is the one that everyone likes. It is a 3D procedurally generated world, according to my husband. Educational.
Itโs fun to watch them play. They put together buildings block by block then fill the rooms with minerals that they have mined with pick-axes they have made. They assemble green fields and raise chickens to eat. โI killed one!โ Eli yells. โItโs almost night,โ Ben tells him.
There are bills and supermarket flyers. Also, a magazine addressed to a former tenant. The cover promises tips for helping depressive people.
What to say:
Iโm sorry that youโre in so much pain. I am not going to leave you. I am going to take care of myself, so you donโt need to worry that your pain might hurt me.
What not to say:
Have you tried chamomile tea?
Afterward, we walk in the park. Heโs met someone maybe. But he doesnโt think itโs going to work out. Sheโs too different from him. It takes me a while to figure out they havenโt even been on a date yet. โYou donโt want to date someone like you, do you?โ I ask him. Henry laughs. โGod, no.โ
In the first class I ever took with Sylvia, she told us about assortative mating. Meaning like with likeโdepressive with depressive. The problem with assortative mating, she said, is that it feels perfectly correct when you do it. Like a key fitting into a lock and opening a door.
The question being: Is this really the room you want to spend your life in?
So I tell my brother how Ben and I never notice the same things. Like that time, I came home and he was all excited because they finally took it down. Took what down, I asked. And he had to explain that the scaffolding that had covered the front of our building for three years was finally gone. And then last week when I was telling him a story about the guy from 5C, he said, Wait, what drug dealer?
When I get home, the dog wants an ice cube. I give her one, but she keeps banging her bowl around the kitchen. โHow was your day?โ I ask Ben. He shrugs. โI coded mostly, did some laundry.โ
There is a heroic tower of folded things on the table. I spot my favorite shirt, my least depressing underwear. I go into the bedroom and change into them. Now I am a brand-new person.
On her third day of marriage, Queen Victoria wrote: My dearest Albert put on my stockings for me. I went and saw him shave, a great delightโฆย
My mother calls and speaks to me of the light, the vine, the living bread.
Seven am and Eli is playing fetch. I take the slobber frog away, put it on top of the fridge. โWe have to go! Get your backpack!โ I tell him. The dog watches me warily, her head on her paws. ย I run a brush roughly through Eliโs hair. He winces and darts away from me. โWe have to go! Put on your shoes!โ I yell. Then finally, weโre out the door.
Mrs. Kovinski tries to tell me something about the elevators, but we race right past her. Ten blocks. Iโm walking too fast, pulling Eli along with me. Wrong living, I know, I know, but itโs a long line at the office if heโs late.
A last sprint across the playground and we make it just in time. Iโm out of breath, sweaty, sad. I kiss Eliโs head, trying to undo it the rush. Why didnโt I have more kids so I could have more chances?
These other mothers knew enough not to have only one. There is a cluster of them over by the fence. They are speaking Urdu, I think. One of them smiles at me and I give a little wave.
How do I look to her, I wonder, in my drab clothes and fancy glasses. Last week, she donated a bag of silk fabric for the school raffle; it is red, stitched through with golden thread. Eli wants to win it and use it for a cape. I know how to write her name, but not how to say it.
This woman is a shrink. Also a Buddhist. She likes to practice one or the other on me, Iโve noticed. โYou seem to identify down not up. Why do you think that is?โ
You tell me, lady.
Here is the midnight question for my husband. What is wrong with my knee? โI hear this little click when Iโm walking. And thereโs a twinge too sometimes if I take the stairs.โ He is eating a spoonful of peanut butter. He puts it in the sink then kneels down to examine me.ย โDoes this hurt?โ he asks, pressing lightly on the skin. โHow about this? Or this?โ I waggle my hand to indicate maybe it does, maybe a little bit. He stands up and gives me a kiss. โKnee cancer?โ he says.
One good thing about being addicted to sleeping pills is that they donโt call it addicted they call it โhabituated.โ
Funny how people will lecture you about anything these days. This one on the library steps is going on and on about my ham sandwich. โPigs are more trainable than dogs! Cows understand cause and effect!โ Who asked you anyway, I think, but I leave and eat it at my desk.
But the man in the shabby suit tells me things I want to know. He works for hospice. He said that it is important when a loved one dies to try to stay alone in the house for three days. This is when the manifestations occur. His wife manifested as a small whirlwind that swept the papers off his desk. Marvelous, marvelous, he said.
Thereโs a sign on our elevator saying it is out of order. I stand there looking at it as if it might change. Mrs. Kovinski comes into the lobby. Theyโll let anyone be super now is her theory. Anyone.
I get the mail, put off making my slow way up the stairs. The fancy preschool still sends us their newsletter. This one features a list of the top ten fears reported by their students. Darkness doesnโt make the cut. Blood, sharks, and loneliness are 8, 9 and 10.
When I come in, the dog is sleeping under the table. Eli is folding a piece of plain white paper. โDonโt look,โ he says. โIโm inventing this. No one will ever know what I have done except me.โ
I donโt look. I put out kibble and water, peer open-heartedly into the fridge. The window is open. Itโs nice out. The pigeons arenโt on the fire escape. There are some pots left over from the tomato experiment. โWhoosh,โ my son says.
My #1 fear is the acceleration of days. No such thing supposedly, but I swear I can feel it.
โDo you want a snack?โ she asks me. I hesitate because Catherine works in advertising. She met my brother when he signed up to be in a focus group for her agency. A hundred dollars cash was the pay. The assignment was to brainstorm names for a new deodorant aimed at children under ten. The Stink of Angels was his contribution.
I still canโt quite believe theyโre a couple, but on their first date, they both ordered club soda. Twelve Steppers call it the Thirteenth Step. She used to do a little coke. He was all about the pills.
I tell Catherine Iโm just going to wait for dinner. Later, I cruise by her desk and sure enough thereโs a folder there.
Potato Chips: Ambitious, successful, high achiever
Nuts: Easygoing, empathetic, understanding
Popcorn: Takes charge, smart, self-confident
I heard into the living room and there is Ben, blithely eating cashews.
Sunday morning. The dog has found a baby bunny in the grass. She closed her mouth around it once then released it. Now we are trying to save it. Someone at the community garden has given us a box lined with a soft cloth. But it is trembling violently. There is no blood anywhere, but there are small indents in the fur that show where her teeth have been. We try to put it back in the garden but it has already died. Of fright, I think.
That night, Eli calls to us hysterically from the kitchen. Thereโs a mouse skull under the sink, he says. I give Ben a dark look. We are killing them secretly, I thought. Heavily, he rises to go in there. He gets down on his knees to look under the sink. But it is only a knob of ginger and we are saved.
I donโt know what to do about this car service man. He told me business is down; no one is calling anymore. He had to let all his drivers go and is down to one car. He sleeps at work now so as to never miss a call. His wife has said she is going to leave him.
Mr. Jimmy. Thatโs the name on the card he gave me. I try to use only his service now, not the better, faster one. Sometimes when I call his voice is groggy. He says always that he will be there in seven minutes, but it is much longer now.
I used to take a car service only if I was going to be late, but now I find I am building in double the amount of travel time. A bus would be the same or faster. Also, I could afford it. But what if I am the only customer he has left?
Iโm late for the lecture now. And I was wrong about which building itโs in. By the time I get there, Sylvia is almost through speaking.ย Thereโs a big crowd. Behind her is a graph shaped like a hockey stick.
โWhat it means to be a good person, a moral person, is calculated differently in times of crisis than in ordinary circumstances,โ she says. She pulls up a slide of people having a picnic by a lake.ย Blue skies, green trees, white people.
โSuppose you go with some friends to the park to have a picnic. This act, is, of course, morally neutral, but if you witness a group of children drowning in the lake and you continue to eat and chat, you have become monstrous.โ
The moderator makes a gesture to show it is time to wrap up. A line of men is forming behind the microphone. โI have both a question and a comment,โ they say. A young woman stands up to wait in line. I watch as she inches forward. Finally, she makes it to the front to ask her question.
โHow do you maintain your optimism?โ
I canโt get to her afterward. There are too many people. I walk back to the subway, trying to think about the world.
Young person worry: What if nothing I do matters?
Old person worry: What if everything I do does?
From the book:ย WEATHERย byย Jennyย Offill. Copyright ยฉ 2020 byย Jennyย Offill. To be published on February 11, 2020 by Alfred A. Knopf, an imprint of The Knopf Doubleday Group, a division of Penguin Random House, LLC.ย Permission granted by Union Literary, LLC.