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Dreaming About Being Pregnant? An Expert Explores 9 Reasons Why

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Whether you don’t want to bear children, deeply long to be pregnant, or don’t think much about it at all, you might find yourself dreaming that you’re pregnant. And regardless of how you might feel about reproduction, dreams like this aren’t necessarily directly related to pregnancy or fertility. A pregnancy dream might instead indicate your feelings about some other change or goal in your life. “Pregnancy dreams are typically connected to something else in your life that is in growing and development phase,” says Lauri Loewenberg, a professional dream analyst and author. “Plans that are in the works, or maybe a degree that’s in the works that will, when it comes to fruition, will result in a new life for you.”

Lowenberg says pregnancy dreams are ways for your subconscious to communicate feelings that are harder to unpack in the waking world. “When you’re within the dream and your subconscious is in control, you’re being forced to focus on things that you might be ignoring or turning a blind eye to or not acknowledging. So the dream gives us a better understanding of our current situation by presenting it to us in a different light.”

Continue reading for Loewenberg’s interpretations of various dreams about being pregnant, and how they might relate to what’s happening in your life when you’re awake.

1. If you’re dreaming that you just conceived
“No matter where you are within [your dream] pregnancy it will directly reflect where you are as far as some kind of new growing and developing thing in your life,” Loewenberg says. “So if you’re at the point where you’re just peeing on the stick, then something is just beginning.”

2. If you’re dreaming that you’re in the third trimester 
Loewenberg says the gestation of the pregnancy in your dream is directly related to the progress of your goal or project. “If you’re at the third trimester then you’re about to come to the end of this road, and whatever it is you’ve been working on is about to come to fruition.”

3. If you dream of having “morning” sickness
While morning sickness can be a natural part of pregnancy, Loewenberg says its presence in a pregnancy dream might indicate emotional unease about something in your life that’s growing. “Something in this process of whatever you’re working on, it could even be relationship, something about it doesn’t feel right to you. So you would need to ask yourself, okay, is this just a natural process of this project, this relationship, this degree, whatever it is, or is this something unnecessarily making me feel awkward or wrong. Is there some kind of unhealthy aspect of this that I need to look at and correct?”

4. If you dream you’re pregnant with twins or triplets 
“Maybe you’ve got two things on the burner, or maybe there’s several aspects to this one thing. And so it may feel like you’re juggling a lot of things and your subconscious is relaying it to you in the form of multiple fetuses.”

5. If you dream you give birth but misplace your baby and lose it
“That would indicate that this could be a warning from her subconscious that something she’s been working on — perhaps she’s allowed to get lost in the shuffle of life. Don’t lose sight of this thing because it is something that you grew and labored over. You know, and don’t belittle its significance. Don’t lose sight of it.”

6. If you dream that you’re pregnant with an inhuman baby
“That would indicate that this new development in your life is something that seems foreign to you. It’s not something you’ve encountered before. It feels alien, doesn’t feel familiar to us. So it would be a message from your subconscious that you’d need to familiarize yourself with this new situation.”

7. If you dream your ex got you pregnant
Dreaming of the ex is, I would almost say, equally as common as the pregnancy dream because they’re reported to me all the time. So that being said, if you dream your ex got you pregnant, that’s a very good indication that you’ve learned an awful lot from that relationship. In a sense, that relationship has allowed you to give birth to a new part of yourself. The pregnancy would represent all this new knowledge and wisdom that is growing and developing within you, thanks to that ex.”

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8. If you dream that you go into labor but can’t feel pain
“When that’s the case and you don’t feel the labor and there’s no pain, it’s like one of those sayings: don’t sweat it, piece of cake,” Loewenberg says. Despite the well-documented reality that labor can be incredibly painful, it’s actually pretty common to dream about a painless labor. “Your subconscious is telling you don’t worry, this isn’t going to be painful in any way. Just finish this project, finish this degree, just get it done.”

9. When you dream you’re in pain during labor
“Here’s the thing about physical pain in a dream. When you feel pain in a dream, it’s most often connected to emotional pain in real life. So this could be telling you that this is beginning to emotionally drain you, but then again, it’s also at the very end of your pregnancy. So you know, you just keep pushing. You’re almost there.”

9 Reasons You’re Dreaming You’re Pregnant and What It Means