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    The One Secret to Avoiding Fights Over Money With Your PartnerBuying a Coke can feel as loaded as buying a new home.
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    I’m Remarried, So Why Does My Divorce Still Feel Like a Failure?My divorce continues to have an impact on all of my relationships, even after I got remarried.
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    7 Things Football Taught Me About Fighting With My HusbandI’m going to start yelling “touchdown!” when I’m right.
  4. 10 Secrets to Living Together in a Studio Without Driving Each Other CrazyWe learned the hard way — designate “dude space” and “chick space.”
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    Does Splitting the Housework Really Make Couples Have More Sex?An experiment to find out if a chore wheel is the new aphrodisiac.
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    Could This Personality Disorder Explain Anthony Weiner’s Downfall?Narcissistic exhibitionists love nothing more than to be talked about.
  7. How to Tell Your Partner About Your Fetish, Without Making It WeirdMake it into a joke that isn’t a joke but can totally be turned into a joke.
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    6 Questions Never to Ask Your PartnerHypotheticals and thought crimes can drive a woman crazy.
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    I Learned the Hard Way That Marriage Can’t Cure DepressionI thought my partnership could magically fix my mental health.
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    My Trick for Not Fighting With My Husband? Giving the Fight a NameBecause who wants to go to Fart World?
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    7 Shut-It-Down Responses to the Question ‘When Are You Having a Baby?’“I’m concerned about why you’re asking me this. Are you getting everything you need at home?”
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    I Took My Husband to ‘Orgasmic Meditation’ TrainingIt may be a scam, but it feels pretty good!
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    Why Your Husband Gets Hit On More When He’s Wearing a RingThere’s real science behind it!
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    Being Needy in a Relationship Is Actually a Great IdeaStop the self-inflicted need-shaming!
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    How I Learned to Stop Giving Non-Apology Apologies to My HusbandA five-step guide to upping your “I’m sorry” game.
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    Your ‘Number’ Doesn’t Matter — But What You Do With It DoesThe problem is when we bring up our sexual histories in not-so-subtle ways.
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    A Defense of Chad on The Bachelorette — by My Own HusbandDid I mention he’s a Trump voter, too?
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    How to Create the Illusion That You’re the Effortlessly Perfect WifeAnd why it’s crucial for your relationship to do it.
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    9 New Relationship Rules for the Online-ObsessedA playbook for saving us from our 2016 selves.
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    The Benefits of Marrying a Fellow AddictSometimes the only way to quit is to talk to someone who actually has.
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    And Now, Men Explaining Why They Send Dick PicsHonestly, we’re still not sure we understand.
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    Your Partner Can’t Be Your Only Source of LoveHow I learned to find other sources of fuel for my “love tank.”
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    How a Man Treats His Mother Tells You Everything You Need to KnowThe good, the bad, and the unbelievably beautiful.
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    How Lemonade Helped Me Talk to My Husband About CheatingThe catharsis of watching a flawless woman break down.
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    I Love My Husband, But I Hate Working With HimCombining love and entrepreneurship has created our own Game of Thrones.
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    Talking Dirty Taught Me I Am Terrible at Talking DirtySome people have a way with naughty words. Other people not have way.
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    The Most Important Words in a Relationship: ‘Don’t Ever Do That Again’You’ve heard of the Golden Rule? This is the Golden Threat.
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    How to Win at Marriage CounselingDo you want to be happy or be right? Be right, obviously.
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    Move Over, Butt Stuff: Hand Jobs Are BackAn ode to the least-respected sex act.
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    Forget Your Work Husband, Who’s Your Office Daddy?And how does your partner feel about him?
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    I’m Modeling My Marriage on Frank and Claire Underwood’sThe House of Cards stars have the ideal modern marriage — minus all the murder.
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    Trump Is Tearing My Marriage ApartHow to cope when your spouse loves the Donald.
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    How to Arrange a Three-way With Your HusbandWho says women can’t have it all?
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    The Paralyzing Power of ‘What Other Women Will Think’I didn’t realize its full effects — until I got married because of it.
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    Why Every Guy From Your Past Assumes He’s ‘The Guy’The first rule of Sexual Tension Club? You do not talk about Sexual Tension Club.
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    Step One: Resolve to Die Alone. Step Two: Get Married.When unfazeable meets undateable.
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    It Happened to Me: How I Became a First-Person Human TraffickerA former xoJane editor tells all about telling all.