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¡hola Papi!
¡hola papi!
Apr. 23, 2021
‘I’m Sad Over a Relationship That Never Even Happened’
It’s human to get attached to your daydreams. The thing about “almost relationships” is they are 99 percent fantasy.
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J.P. Brammer
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Apr. 16, 2021
‘I’m So Jealous of My Hot Friend’
We can learn to look at ourselves in such a way that we see someone worthy of love, happiness, and affection.
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J.P. Brammer
¡hola papi!
Apr. 9, 2021
‘I Have a Good Life. I’m Happy. Why Isn’t That Enough?’
You need to strike a balance between fantasy and reality: Someone probably isn’t going to waltz into your life and fix everything for you.
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J.P. Brammer
¡hola papi!
Apr. 2, 2021
‘Things Could Be Worse for Me, and I Feel Guilty’
Happiness can and does happen in a world of hurt. It has to. What other world would it happen in?
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J.P. Brammer
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Mar. 26, 2021
‘I Slept With a Woman. Am I Still Gay?’
Don’t be afraid you’re committing identity fraud just because you’re not sure which word to use yet.
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J.P. Brammer
¡hola papi!
Mar. 19, 2021
‘I Want to Be More Latino. Is That a Thing?’
We’ve been conditioned to couple lived experience with “authenticity”; there are a set number of things a “real Latinx” must do.
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J.P. Brammer
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Mar. 12, 2021
‘Being Single Really, Really Sucks Right Now’
I’m lonely. You’re lonely. It’s fine to feel upset about it.
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J.P. Brammer
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Mar. 2, 2021
‘I Feel Guilty for Living So Far From Home!’
Just like our lives, home is a shifting, changing thing because, well, we carry it with us.
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J.P. Brammer