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Esther Calling
esther calling
Sept. 11, 2023
‘How Do I Stop Obsessing Over Having Had an Affair and Forgive Myself?’
Beating yourself up doesn’t solve anything, Esther Perel says. Instead, unpack why you had the affair in the first place
and
what you got from it.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Aug. 28, 2023
‘My Brother’s Wife Ruined Our Relationship’
No matter how close siblings are, Esther Perel says, they shouldn’t define what love is for each other as they grow older.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Aug. 14, 2023
‘I’m Seeing Someone I Really Like — I Just Wished She Liked Me Less’
To be able to experience a loving relationship, Esther Perel says, you must first accept that you’re capable of being loved.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
July 17, 2023
‘Is My Partner Gaslighting Me, or Am I Being Overly Sensitive?’
Manipulation, scapegoating, coercion, and lying are all gaslighting tactics, says Esther Perel. This “Esther Calling” caller knows them all too well.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
July 14, 2023
“I’m Stuck in the Middle of My Fighting Friends”
You’re not responsible for their relationship, says Esther Perel in this installment of “Esther Calling.”
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
July 13, 2023
‘I Want a Child, But My Partner Isn’t Sure’
Giving them space to decide means changing the dynamic of the conversation, says Esther Perel in the latest “Esther Calling.”
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
July 12, 2023
‘I’m 40 and I’ve Never Had a Long-Term Relationship’
First things first: Our romantic attachments mirror the emotional bonds we have with our first caregivers, says Esther Perel in this “Esther Calling.”
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
July 11, 2023
‘I’m Losing My Best Friend to Her New Fiancé’
Curiosity, Esther Perel says in this “Esther Calling,” about a friend’s life
now
is essential if a childhood friendship is to survive adulthood.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
July 10, 2023
“I’m Resentful of My Partner’s Privilege”
“This is not a problem you need to solve,” Esther Perel tells this “Esther Calling” listener. This
is
the relationship.
By
Esther Perel