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Esther Perel

  1. esther calling
    ‘We Moved Away From Family During the Pandemic. Now I Miss That Support.’Depleted mothers are everywhere, says Esther Perel. Focus on retrieving the woman behind the mother and wife.
  2. relationships
    The 3 Things Every Couple Fights AboutAnd more insights on conflict resolution from Esther Perel.
  3. esther calling
    ‘I Blew Up My Marriage. Now I Want Her Back.’Understand not only why you ended things that way, Esther Perel says, but why you want it all back.
  4. esther calling
    ‘I Don’t Know How to Advocate for Myself to My Boss or My Husband’It’s not that you can’t do this for yourself, Esther Perel tells this week’s caller, it’s that you’ve learned not to. Perhaps now you can un-learn.
  5. esther calling
    ‘How Do I Stop Obsessing Over Having Had an Affair and Forgive Myself?’Beating yourself up doesn’t solve anything, Esther Perel says. Instead, unpack why you had the affair in the first place and what you got from it.
  6. esther calling
    ‘My Brother’s Wife Ruined Our Relationship’No matter how close siblings are, Esther Perel says, they shouldn’t define what love is for each other as they grow older.
  7. esther calling
    ‘I’m Seeing Someone I Really Like — I Just Wished She Liked Me Less’To be able to experience a loving relationship, Esther Perel says, you must first accept that you’re capable of being loved.
  8. esther calling
    ‘Is My Partner Gaslighting Me, or Am I Being Overly Sensitive?’Manipulation, scapegoating, coercion, and lying are all gaslighting tactics, says Esther Perel. This “Esther Calling” caller knows them all too well.
  9. esther calling
    “I’m Stuck in the Middle of My Fighting Friends”You’re not responsible for their relationship, says Esther Perel in this installment of “Esther Calling.”
  10. esther calling
    ‘I Want a Child, But My Partner Isn’t Sure’Giving them space to decide means changing the dynamic of the conversation, says Esther Perel in the latest “Esther Calling.”
  11. esther calling
    ‘I’m 40 and I’ve Never Had a Long-Term Relationship’First things first: Our romantic attachments mirror the emotional bonds we have with our first caregivers, says Esther Perel in this “Esther Calling.”
  12. esther calling
    ‘I’m Losing My Best Friend to Her New Fiancé’Curiosity, Esther Perel says in this “Esther Calling,” about a friend’s life now is essential if a childhood friendship is to survive adulthood.
  13. rules to live by
    Esther Perel’s Advice for Giving Advice (and Hosting Dinner Parties)And other thoughts on intimacy from a bona fide intimacy expert.
  14. recommendations
    The Complete Esther Perel Immersion CourseA guide to the rest of Perel’s (cross-platform, ever-expanding) canon.
  15. esther calling
    “I’m Resentful of My Partner’s Privilege”“This is not a problem you need to solve,” Esther Perel tells this “Esther Calling” listener. This is the relationship.
  16. recommendations
    Which Episode of Where Should We Begin? Should You Listen to Right Now?A comprehensive guide to Esther Perel’s flagship podcast.
  17. where should we begin?
    Esther Perel’s Favorite Episodes of Her Own PodcastThe infidelities, the fights, and the blindfolds.
  18. where should we begin?
    Esther Perel’s Pocket Encyclopedia of Human EmotionsSix new ways to talk about your feelings.
  19. first person
    Banishing the Flannel NightgownEsther Perel believes relationships require holding on to mystery and desire. Twenty-three years into marriage, it’s a lesson I’m always relearning.
  20. where should we begin?
    The Cut’s Everything Guide to the Esther Perel UniverseWhere should you begin? Right here.
  21. recommendations
    Please Enjoy Esther Perel’s 10 Favorite Erotic Films“Many of these scenes play out fantasies, and fantasies often express our deepest emotional needs and wishes,” Perel says.
  22. modern love
    Feeling Unsatisfied? Blame ‘Romantic Consumerism,’ Says Esther PerelPlagued by some Big Questions — is marriage worth it? Why does everyone feel so blah? — I sat down with the celebrity therapist for answers.
  23. huh?
    Esther Perel Was Armie Hammer’s Marriage Counselor?Elizabeth Chambers says the former couple saw the relationship specialist for years.
  24. the cut podcast
    We Are All Burnt OutIs there any way to break free? We set out for answers, guided by a Japanese novel, a mastermind of self care, and the one and only Esther Perel.
  25. relationships
    Esther Perel’s Advice for Couples Under Lockdown”Disasters generally operate as an accelerator in a relationship.”
  26. work
    How I Get It Done: Esther PerelThe psychologist and author on how she organizes her days, what she loves about New York, and what studying infidelity has taught her about marriage.
  27. married women
    Why So Many Women Cheat on Their HusbandsWomen are cheating more than ever. So what does that tell us about marriage?
  28. quotables
    To Consider: The Underwood Model of MarriageThe affairs make you more powerful.