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Relationship Advice
esther calling
Mar. 25, 2024
‘My Partner Has a Wife in Another Country. Should I Leave Him?’
Being so loyal runs the risk of losing your own authenticity, Esther Perel tells this week’s caller. Ask why you subjugate yourself in relationships.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Mar. 11, 2024
‘Why Do I Keep Dating Men Who Tear Me Down?’
You don’t trust yourself anymore, Esther Perel tells this week’s listener. But you should let yourself be guided by
yo
ur
reason.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Feb. 27, 2024
‘Where Does the “Evil Voice” in My Head Come From?’
In part two of their conversation, Esther Perel helps a caller realize that her desire to cheat is a reenactment of past sexual trauma.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Feb. 26, 2024
‘Why Does Part of Me Want to Cheat?’
You may have shared your trauma with your boyfriend, Esther Perel tells a caller in part one of their conversation, but you wish he was more curious.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Feb. 12, 2024
‘I Lost My Husband to Suicide. How Do I Recover Who I Was Before?’
Your joy is still alive within you, Esther Perel tells this week’s caller, and if you remember it, you will find love again.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Nov. 6, 2023
‘We Moved Away From Family During the Pandemic. Now I Miss That Support.’
Depleted mothers are everywhere, says Esther Perel. Focus on retrieving the woman behind the mother and wife.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Oct. 23, 2023
‘My Partner Is a Widower. Is There Room for Me in His Heart?’
It’s not just the items he’s kept, Esther Perel says, but your own fear of being lovable enough.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Oct. 9, 2023
‘I Blew Up My Marriage. Now I Want Her Back.’
Understand not only why you ended things that way, Esther Perel says, but why you want it all back.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Sept. 25, 2023
‘I Don’t Know How to Advocate for Myself to My Boss or My Husband’
It’s not that you can’t do this for yourself, Esther Perel tells this week’s caller, it’s that you’ve learned not to. Perhaps now you can un-learn.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Sept. 11, 2023
‘How Do I Stop Obsessing Over Having Had an Affair and Forgive Myself?’
Beating yourself up doesn’t solve anything, Esther Perel says. Instead, unpack why you had the affair in the first place
and
what you got from it.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Aug. 28, 2023
‘My Brother’s Wife Ruined Our Relationship’
No matter how close siblings are, Esther Perel says, they shouldn’t define what love is for each other as they grow older.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
Aug. 14, 2023
‘I’m Seeing Someone I Really Like — I Just Wished She Liked Me Less’
To be able to experience a loving relationship, Esther Perel says, you must first accept that you’re capable of being loved.
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
July 14, 2023
“I’m Stuck in the Middle of My Fighting Friends”
You’re not responsible for their relationship, says Esther Perel in this installment of “Esther Calling.”
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
July 13, 2023
‘I Want a Child, But My Partner Isn’t Sure’
Giving them space to decide means changing the dynamic of the conversation, says Esther Perel in the latest “Esther Calling.”
By
Esther Perel
esther calling
July 12, 2023
‘I’m 40 and I’ve Never Had a Long-Term Relationship’
First things first: Our romantic attachments mirror the emotional bonds we have with our first caregivers, says Esther Perel in this “Esther Calling.”
By
Esther Perel
recommendations
July 10, 2023
The Complete Esther Perel Immersion Course
A guide to the rest of Perel’s (cross-platform, ever-expanding) canon.
By
Maria Del Russo
esther calling
July 10, 2023
“I’m Resentful of My Partner’s Privilege”
“This is not a problem you need to solve,” Esther Perel tells this “Esther Calling” listener. This
is
the relationship.
By
Esther Perel
recommendations
July 10, 2023
Which Episode of
Where Should We Begin?
Should You Listen to Right Now?
A comprehensive guide to Esther Perel’s flagship podcast.
By
Maria Del Russo
where should we begin?
July 10, 2023
Esther Perel’s Favorite Episodes of Her Own Podcast
The infidelities, the fights, and the blindfolds.
By
Esther Perel
As told to
The Cut
where should we begin?
July 10, 2023
The Cut’s Everything Guide to the Esther Perel Universe
Where should you begin? Right here.
By
the Cut
divorce
Feb. 14, 2023
Marriage Advice From a Celebrity Divorce Lawyer
Stephanie Lehman — the lawyer representing Marilee Fiebig in her divorce from T.J. Holmes — can spot a cheater.
By
Bindu Bansinath
love and tiktok
May 25, 2022
The Free Dating Coach That’s Already on Your Phone
TikTok. It’s TikTok.
By
Courtney Runn
relationship advice
Sept. 15, 2021
Zoë Kravitz Really Has Been Styling Her New Boyfriend
A major precedent for relationships everywhere.
By
Danielle Cohen
Sponsor Story
All Your Dating App Questions, Answered
From making the first move to everything that follows.
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The 5 Unspoken Rules of Dating Apps
Date more (and better) in 2020.
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7 Tips for Getting More (and Better) Matches
Obvious and non-obvious ways to make your Bumble experience the best it can be.
my two cents
Aug. 3, 2017
I’m Doing Really Well at Work and It’s Ruining My Relationship
It’s time to reexamine what you really want.
By
Charlotte Cowles
relationship advice
Feb. 10, 2017
Your Ultimate Guide to Relationship Advice
For couples, singles, and those in between.
By
the Cut
the doctor is in
Feb. 9, 2017
Wendy Williams Is Here to Solve Your Relationship Problems
From long-distance relationships to getting back into dating, Wendy gives our readers her best love advice.
By
Lisa Ryan
June 11, 2014
The Indecipherable Modern Dude: Your Love and Sex Questions, Answered
Including: the case for dating three guys at once.
By
Jennifer Jill Harman
texting while dating
Oct. 31, 2013
Study: Too Much Texting Could Ruin Your Relationship
How to lose a guy without even talking in person.
By
Erica Schwiegershausen