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  1. astrology
    Astrology’s Secret Weapon to Understanding Your Romantic RelationshipsA guide to all things Venus — yes, including Venus retrograde.
    By Aliza Kelly
  2. first person
    What I Learned In Conversion TherapyI went to a session every week in high school. I came out as trans anyway.
    By Grace Byron
  3. advice
    ‘He’s Pushing Me Away. Should I Take the Hint?’Sticking around might seem noble, but you also might just be enabling him. He needs to understand that his words and actions have consequences.
    By J.P. Brammer
  4. esther calling
    ‘I’m Seeing Someone I Really Like — I Just Wished She Liked Me Less’To be able to experience a loving relationship, Esther Perel says, you must first accept that you’re capable of being loved.
    By Esther Perel
  5. sex diaries
    The Waiter Wondering If He’ll Have Sex on the Third DateThis week’s sex diary.
    As told to Alyssa Shelasky
  6. astrology
    Madame Clairevoyant: Horoscopes for the Week of August 14A new moon in Leo gives you a chance to hit “refresh” on your relationships.
    By Claire Comstock-Gay
  7. ¡hola papi!
    ‘How Do I Make a Move Without Coming Off As Creepy?’Even I live in fear of saying something on a dating app that ends up in a viral Twitter screenshot.
    By J.P. Brammer
  8. brooding
    When Lonely Children Go Viral, Should We Rejoice?GoFundMes and positivity will not actually help a child make friends — even worse, sharing feel-good content about them risks causing harm.
    By Kathryn Jezer-Morton
  9. sex diaries
    The Gallerista Getting an Erotic Massage at the Russian BathhouseThis week’s sex diary.
    As told to Alyssa Shelasky
  10. astrology
    Madame Clairevoyant: Horoscopes for the Week of August 7A quarter-moon in Taurus may create tension.
    By Claire Comstock-Gay
  11. hot bod
    How Many Calories Does Sex Burn?It’s not the same as a gym sesh but that’s fine!
    By Hannah Jackson and Candice Jalili
  12. ¡hola papi!
    ‘My Friend Is Always Pointing Out Hot Guys, and It Makes Me Insecure’Comparison is a thief. It wants nothing but your time and happiness.
    By J.P. Brammer
  13. sex diaries
    The 50-Year-Old Reconnecting With Her Summer-Camp CrushThis week’s sex diary.
    As told to Alyssa Shelasky
  14. astrology
    Madame Clairevoyant: Horoscopes for the Week of July 31On Tuesday, a full moon in idealistic Aquarius illuminates unseen possibilities.
    By Claire Comstock-Gay
  15. the hard part
    There’s No Such Thing as a Vacation with Young KidsA relaxing getaway may no longer be in the cards — but giving in to the chaos can be just as exquisite.
    By Amil Niazi
  16. star material
    A Handy Guide to (Surviving) Your Saturn ReturnAn existential crisis triggered by the universe can be a good thing!
    By Aliza Kelly
  17. ¡hola papi!
    ‘Why Am I Dreaming About Sex With a Man When I’m a Lesbian?’The something at the root of a dream is very rarely the most literal interpretation of what happens in it. It’s your dating anxiety talking.
    By J.P. Brammer
  18. brooding
    Will Teens Always Be Daredevils?It seems like an impulse that’s on the wane lately. Is that a good thing?
    By Kathryn Jezer-Morton
  19. explainer
    A Beginner’s Guide to Tarot CardsEverything you need to know to get started reading.
    By Hannah Jackson
  20. sex diaries
    The Publicist Sleeping With an Irish Guy She Met at the GymThis week’s sex diary.
    As told to Alyssa Shelasky
  21. astrology
    Madame Clairevoyant: Horoscopes for the Week of July 24The sun has entered Leo just as Venus goes retrograde.
    By Claire Comstock-Gay
  22. star material
    Venus Retrograde Is Coming for Your SummerThe key to surviving it? Just give in.
    By Aliza Kelly
  23. relationships
    How to Get Over SomeoneSome practical advice from the experts.
    By Hannah Jackson and Katie Berohn
  24. ¡hola papi!
    ‘My Boyfriend Dumped Me Out of the Blue’Whether you like it or not, time will dull the ache. People can and do come out the other side of this situation all the time.
    By J.P. Brammer
  25. zodiac seasons
    Your Guide to Leo SeasonLeo season is about the energy of the sun: golden, bright, impossible to ignore.
    By Claire Comstock-Gay
  26. both sides of a breakup
    Both Sides of a Breakup: He Couldn’t Get Past the HerpesTwo exes explain why it ended.
    As told to Alyssa Shelasky
  27. esther calling
    ‘Is My Partner Gaslighting Me, or Am I Being Overly Sensitive?’Manipulation, scapegoating, coercion, and lying are all gaslighting tactics, says Esther Perel. This “Esther Calling” caller knows them all too well.
    By Esther Perel
  28. sex diaries
    The Southerner Stumbling Into Her First ThreesomeThis week’s sex diary.
    As told to Alyssa Shelasky
  29. astrology
    Madame Clairevoyant: Horoscopes for the Week of July 17The week starts with a new moon in Cancer and ends with the sun entering fiery Leo.
    By Claire Comstock-Gay
  30. dreaming
    How to Interpret Dreams About Practically AnyoneFrom exes to co-workers to celebrities, here’s a guide.
    By Candice Jalili and Gretty Garcia
  31. dreaming
    What Does It Mean If You Dream About Fish?Catching a fish in your dreams, or watching them swim in a tank? Here’s how the experts interpret it.
    By Candice Jalili and Kelly Conaboy
  32. dreaming
    What Does It Mean If You Dream About Dogs?Are dogs running, barking, and chasing you in your sleep? Here’s what that could mean.
    By Candice Jalili and Kelly Conaboy
  33. self
    3 Marriage Counselors on the Misuse of ‘Therapy-Speak’“If someone can’t be vulnerable and honest, they can use therapy jargon to put their partner in their place.”
    As told to Paula Aceves
  34. dreaming
    What Does It Mean If You’re Dreaming About Tornadoes?“Our emotions are the weather of the mind … and tornadoes tend to represent worry and anxiety, spinning out of control.”
    By Claire Lampen
  35. esther calling
    “I’m Stuck in the Middle of My Fighting Friends”You’re not responsible for their relationship, says Esther Perel in this installment of “Esther Calling.”
    By Esther Perel
  36. ¡hola papi!
    ‘What if My Partner Judges Me for Writing Smut?’He doesn’t have to read it or get super into the genre, but he does have to respect it, and respect you.
    By J.P. Brammer
  37. dreaming
    What Does It Mean If You’re Having Dreams About Babies?“Usually baby dreams are a really positive sign that represent growth or development.” There are, of course, exceptions.
    By Claire Lampen
  38. dreaming
    What Does It Mean If You’re Dreaming About Spiders?“Any time of transformation, of rebirth, of cycles and life and death, can bring about the visage of an arachnid, for sure.”
    By Claire Lampen
  39. esther calling
    ‘I Want a Child, But My Partner Isn’t Sure’Giving them space to decide means changing the dynamic of the conversation, says Esther Perel in the latest “Esther Calling.”
    By Esther Perel
  40. dreaming
    What Does It Mean If You’re Dreaming About Alligators?The gator may represent “someone with a big mouth, and sharp, biting remarks and hurtful criticism.” Sound like anyone you know?
    By Claire Lampen
  41. dreaming
    What Does It Mean If You’re Dreaming About Bears?Are you feeling threatened? In need of rest? Desperate to reconnect with nature? Bear dreams hold many meanings.
    By Claire Lampen
  42. esther calling
    ‘I’m 40 and I’ve Never Had a Long-Term Relationship’First things first: Our romantic attachments mirror the emotional bonds we have with our first caregivers, says Esther Perel in this “Esther Calling.”
    By Esther Perel
  43. dreaming
    What Does It Mean If You’re Dreaming About Being Chased?“These dreams are especially common for those of us who avoid confrontation, conflict, and big displays of emotion.”
    By Claire Lampen
  44. esther calling
    ‘I’m Losing My Best Friend to Her New Fiancé’Curiosity, Esther Perel says in this “Esther Calling,” about a friend’s life now is essential if a childhood friendship is to survive adulthood.
    By Esther Perel
  45. dreaming
    What Does It Mean If You’re Dreaming About Drowning?“Any event that produces emotion that you cannot control, or that you feel powerless in the sway of, is more likely to spur a drowning dream.”
    By Claire Lampen
  46. brooding
    On Parenting Regrets and the ‘Right Time’ for KidsThis isn’t an advice newsletter — but you have questions anyway. So here are some answers.
    By Kathryn Jezer-Morton
  47. rules to live by
    Esther Perel’s Advice for Giving Advice (and Hosting Dinner Parties)And other thoughts on intimacy from a bona fide intimacy expert.
    By Bindu Bansinath
  48. recommendations
    The Complete Esther Perel Immersion CourseA guide to the rest of Perel’s (cross-platform, ever-expanding) canon.
    By Maria Del Russo
  49. esther calling
    “I’m Resentful of My Partner’s Privilege”“This is not a problem you need to solve,” Esther Perel tells this “Esther Calling” listener. This is the relationship.
    By Esther Perel
  50. recommendations
    Which Episode of Where Should We Begin? Should You Listen to Right Now?A comprehensive guide to Esther Perel’s flagship podcast.
    By Maria Del Russo
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