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What Your Therapist Really Thinks

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    Dear Therapist: Should I Have a Baby Alone If I Can’t Find a Partner?There’s a difference between “I want” and “I’m afraid to want.”
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    Dear Therapist: ‘My Therapist Won’t Let Me Break Up With Her!’We’ve all been in situations where we convince ourselves that we can’t leave.
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    Dear Therapist: ‘Is Couples Therapy a Waste of Time?’In this week’s What Your Therapist Really Thinks, a skeptic questions whether couples counseling actually works.
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    ‘Should I Cut Off Contact with My Crazily Compatible Ex?’Sometimes what feels like an impossible choice is really a false dichotomy, Lori Gottlieb writes in this week’s What Your Therapist Really Thinks.
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    ‘I Love My Girlfriend. So Why Do I Keep Cheating on Her?’The people you run to can’t give you what you want, Lori Gottlieb writes in this week’s What Your Therapist Really Thinks.
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    ‘I Feel Bad Because My Friends Aren’t Attractive!’It’s hard to have a friendship in which one person feels superior.
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    ‘My Parents Still Won’t Accept That I’m Gay!’You might not have to lose each other over their terror and your pain.
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    ‘I’m Terrified of Getting Married!’It’s easier to devalue something we might not get than to acknowledge that we might want it.
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    Why Won’t My Therapist Just Tell Me What to Do?“Our patients’ lives are theirs to live, not ours.”
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    ‘Why Can’t I Stop Thinking About My High School Crush?’Sometimes, remaining in a state of confusion serves us.
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    What Your Therapist Really Thinks: ‘Is My Relationship Too Perfect?’It’s common for people with unhappy histories to feel anxious around happiness.
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    What Your Therapist Really Thinks: ‘How Can I Be Nicer?’The gap between what we do and what we’d like to do often comes down to fear.
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    What Your Therapist Really Thinks: ‘My Friend Says I Stole Her Ideas’This week’s column from Your Therapist.
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    What Your Therapist Really Thinks: ‘I Have a Secret That’s Torturing Me!’This week’s column from Your Therapist.
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    What Your Therapist Really Thinks About Love and MarriageAffairs, divorce, self-sabotage, and more.
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    What Your Therapist Really Thinks: ‘Am I Normal?’This week’s column from Your Therapist.
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    What Your Therapist Really Thinks: ‘I’m Not Sad My Grandmother’s Going to Die’This week’s column from your therapist.
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    What Your Therapist Really Thinks: ‘Am I Screwing Up My Children?’This week’s column from Your Therapist.
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    What Your Therapist Really Thinks: ‘Did I Sabotage My Relationship?’What Your Therapist Really Thinks: This week’s column.
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    ‘Why Is It So Hard to Change?’What Your Therapist Really Thinks: This week’s column.
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    ‘If We Always Threaten Divorce, Is Our Marriage Doomed?’What Your Therapist Really Thinks: This week’s column.
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    ‘Why Is Everyone Always Criticizing Me?’What Your Therapist Really Thinks: This week’s column.
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    ‘The Woman My Father-in-Law Married Is a Nightmare’What Your Therapist Really Thinks: this week’s column.
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    I Found the Perfect Woman — Except for One ProblemWhat Your Therapist Really Thinks: This week’s column.
  25. what your therapist really thinks
    Is My Husband Having an Affair?An affair isn’t the only way spouses betray each other.
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